Samuel Pepys was Britain’s most celebrated diarist. Between Jan 1660-May 1669, he recorded his daily life in illuminating detail. He wrote about his relationship with his wife Elizabeth, and the frustrations of managing his household and the servants. He left first-hand accounts of the Plague Epidemic that likely claimed c100,000 lives in the capital in 1665–66, and of the Great Fire of London that followed. He has come down through the years as one of the key primary sources for those trying to understand the Restoration era.
But there was a dark side to Pepys’ writings, which was never intended to be made public. He described a sordid litany of sexual encounters ranging from his relationships with long-term mistresses to his assaults on maids, including members of his own staff. In an era when corruption was common-place, Pepys also wrote candidly about using his position as a civilian naval official in Restoration London to coerce sexual services from women seeking financial promotion for their husbands.
Consider Feb 1667 when one day Pepys met in his office with Elizabeth Burrows, who was c30 years old and the widow of a naval lieutenant killed in action in 1665. Pepys had promised her financial help. This diary entry, tellingly omitted from editions published in the C19th, appeared without its meaning explained in the 1970s edition. “I had Mrs Burrows all alone in my closet and did there kiss and touch her breasts as much as I wanted until making myself do, but she would not suffer that I should put my hand below her skirts which I endeavoured. Thence away, and with my wife by coach to the Duke of York’s playhouse.”
Elizabeth de Pepys, by John Hayls
National Portrait Gallery
The description was typically casual. That Pepys went to collect his wife Elizabeth immediately after playing with Ms Burrows was astonishing. And the mix of English and foreign words was a deliberate tactic. Pepys tended to avoid specifics in his writing, and often used indirect references to sexual details, except “making myself do” was direct.
There was a very dark side to Pepys’ writings, which was never intended to be made public. So why isn’t this ugly side of Pepys’ character better known? It helps to know that past diary transcribers and biographers often depicted these activities as fun, or simply ignored them altogether. The full extent and implications of Pepys’ self-confessed adulterous activities, including coercion and sexual violence, were often glossed over. It’s a story further complicated by the history behind the diary text publication, sections of which first appeared in print in 1825.
There was a very dark side to Pepys’ writings, which was never intended to be made public. So why isn’t this ugly side of Pepys’ character better known? It helps to know that past diary transcribers and biographers often depicted these activities as fun, or simply ignored them altogether. The full extent and implications of Pepys’ self-confessed adulterous activities, including coercion and sexual violence, were often glossed over. It’s a story further complicated by the history behind the diary text publication, sections of which first appeared in print in 1825.
Why was Pepys paying such close attention to his wife?
Artists painting portrait of Elizabeth Pepys.
Year? Mary Evans Picture Library.
Most of the controversial entries were excised from C19th editions, but all are now featured in the new transcriptions & Pepys's secret code translated from the original shorthand diary. Confessions of Samuel Pepys also revealed how all previous transcribers of the diary and many biographers had deliberately massaged Pepys's reputation.
Confessions of Samuel Pepys focused on Pepys's controversial private life for a modern readership, by charting his varied and complex relationships with women. They included his wife Elizabeth whom he both loved and treated abominably, their domestic servants, the mistresses whom he secretly visited in Westminster and Deptford, a host of other opportunistic encounters, the great ladies of the court whom he ogled, and the actresses whose company he delighted in and combined with casual petting. All these he recounted in shorthand, often disguising the more salacious occasions in his own cryptic Franco-Latino so-called language.
This is for those who seeks to understand what it was like to live back then, a time of Charles II, Restoration London, where women wore beauty spots, and some men thought nothing of attempting a seduction during a church service. Guy de la Bédoyère has transcribed previously un-known or hidden aspects of Samuel Pepys's diary that concerned his pursuit, seduction, harassment and assault of a large number of women. From the wives of colleagues, ladies of fashion and prostitutes, Pepys was catholic in his taste in women. What made this books so astonishing though, was less the titillating details (eg breast fondling) and more the honest way in which Pepys records such endeavours and the inevitable fall out with his wife. Elizabeth Pepys seemed a tragic figure. Pepys 1] made some attempts to stop his fornicating, 2] failed, 3] was full of self-loathing and 4] recorded his hapless attempts to make his wife happier. He showed the full expanse of human brilliance and folly.
Pepys was not simply a dirty predator; he was also needy and some of the women involved appeared to tolerate his affections, in hope of preferment for their husbands. Guy de la Bédoyère deserves great credit for unlocking this hitherto hidden aspect of Pepys's life, clarifying that women would not endanger their husbands' careers by reporting Pepys.
This is for those who seeks to understand what it was like to live back then, a time of Charles II, Restoration London, where women wore beauty spots, and some men thought nothing of attempting a seduction during a church service. Guy de la Bédoyère has transcribed previously un-known or hidden aspects of Samuel Pepys's diary that concerned his pursuit, seduction, harassment and assault of a large number of women. From the wives of colleagues, ladies of fashion and prostitutes, Pepys was catholic in his taste in women. What made this books so astonishing though, was less the titillating details (eg breast fondling) and more the honest way in which Pepys records such endeavours and the inevitable fall out with his wife. Elizabeth Pepys seemed a tragic figure. Pepys 1] made some attempts to stop his fornicating, 2] failed, 3] was full of self-loathing and 4] recorded his hapless attempts to make his wife happier. He showed the full expanse of human brilliance and folly.
Pepys was not simply a dirty predator; he was also needy and some of the women involved appeared to tolerate his affections, in hope of preferment for their husbands. Guy de la Bédoyère deserves great credit for unlocking this hitherto hidden aspect of Pepys's life, clarifying that women would not endanger their husbands' careers by reporting Pepys.




20 comments:
It contrasts the hidden moral failures of Pepys with the enduring, unifying symbolism of the Sydney Harbour Bridge.
Samuel Pepys wanted sex very often. Planning for, and pursuing sex with excitement seemed to filled his active mind and his dreams, and he recorded the events as quickly as possible in the diary. Was he a bit addicted? and disturbed?
Pepys lived in another century, to be sure, but if my spouse behaved like that, I would be an unhappy wife. Poor Mrs Pepys.
Pepys was not only preoccupied with his own extra-marital affairs but was also thrilled by the salacious gossip about King Charles II's mistresses and goings on in the King’s bedchamber. Charles II quickly gained a reputation for his voracious sexual appetite. His notoriety earned him the nickname, Old Rowley, after the most virile stallion in the royal stables, and his sexual prowess was immortalised in the poetry of infamous rake, Earl John Wilmot. Charles appears to have encouraged this reputation, and his infidelity was certainly no secret. The King sired at least 12 children with a string of mistresses who resided in his palaces, while others passed through Whitehall via a side entrance nightly. Pepys was quick to judge Charles’ immorality but saw no hypocrisy in his own behaviour.
Curator Kristian Martin
A playboy of his time, maybe, Hels. He doesn't sound like a very good man with women. I've downloaded a sample of his book!
roentare
Pepys seemed to unify with only one thing in the world and that was his "thing".
Deb
If that was my spouse, I too would have been very upset. But perhaps in the mid 17th century, no one cared about unhappy wives.
Even the question of mental disturbance was era-specific. I don't think Pepys was psychotic, but his one addiction was ceryainly out of control!
Kristian
That sounds as if King Charles II was a supportive and successful mentor for young Samuel. And salacious gossip seemed to thrill Samuel as much as actually getting his hand into ladies'dresses.
Margaret
"Playboy" might be a cute, endearing name that Samuel himself would have liked. I would have called him "a wonderful diarist with an itchy thing".
Dirty deeds revealed, and quite interesting to learn as I've read so many quotes from his diaries.
Andrew
I too read sections of his diaries in history lectures and was very very impressed. Pepys was a careful witness to the crises of Restoration London, without which that history would have been very poorly understood.
Yet his dirty deeds were so carefully hidden, the "modern translation" was almost unbelievable. Now I believe it!
His diary was of course known to me, but I definitely did not know about Pepys’ character or the less than savoury side to him.
Handmade
Until Guy de la Bédoyère's work became well known, very few people knew about Pepys' character, at least his sexual character. And those who might have known kept their mouths firmly shut!
Even recently, I was uncertain of how accurate was de la Bédoyère's ability to decode the secret languages that Pepys utilised. Pepys' sexual activities were more easily believed than his long term corruption as a civilian naval officer.
Dear Helen, I am not astonished or shocked. More interesting is that he could not resist describing his sex life. As C.G.Jung said: all people have a "shadow". I would be very astonished if mankind has changed that much nowadays - Epstein was not alone.
It's interesting that after many years of literature valuing Pepys diary, that this should all come out. It kind of makes all that fuss about who he was (or what I remember from college classes) a bit of a sham. But in other ways, it does give a truer view of the man and probably the times too.
I have never heard of Samuel Pepys but he sounds like a disgusting creature
Jo-Anne
read "Samuel Pepys' diary, politics and Navy"
https://melbourneblogger.blogspot.com/2019/09/samuel-pepys-diary-politics-navy-and.html to discover his very positive contributions first. Only then read about the unfortunate side of his personality.
Britta
since he went to endless trouble to hide the details about his sex life, we have to ask "why in hell did he write about it all in details????" Did he get it all in writing to ensure that, after he died, his proud record would never be lost?
Even now it doesn't really make sense to me, or to him probably.
Erika
I think you are half correct. We were 100% right as young students (and older academics) to make all that fuss about his great writing.
However we would have been wrong to not become familiar now..with the entire man and his times.
Boa noite minha querida amiga. Confesso que não conheçia essa parte da história. Obrigado pela excelente matéria e parabéns pelo seu excelente trabalho de pesquisa. Grande abraço do Brasil.
Luiz
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